Relate or Create

So often I have found myself directing my energy towards men. I mean in a relationship or just when I am interested in one of them. I’ve spent so much of my energy to try to feel what the other person feels, or trying to figure out what I have to be, or do, to … Continue reading Relate or Create

Breaking up with Doubt

Dear Doubt ,  There's just no other way to say this: I'm breaking up with you.  We had a long and not so nice life together. I'm grateful for the security/safety blanket role you played, as designed for this reality. I get it, but you need to know that  I really am breaking up with you now. Doubt, you are … Continue reading Breaking up with Doubt